Also I do not try to push him

Dating an autistic guy

He'll get it right someday haha -My bf has a hard time letting me know he loves me. That way everybody knows whats expected later on haha.

Thats why we have scheduled not as boring as it sounds preplanned time. And once again it is scheduled and annual.

But it did not come naturally to me, as it does for most people. The hardest part for me was letting him know when i wad upset. Sometimes feelings and words are hard for him to put into linear thoughts. However I have learned that that is not the case.

He'll get it

His mind works in an astronomically high rate haha he processes details like I could have never imagined. It is his way of letting me know he loves me And he has all week to dread and prep up to the task haha. We were lying on a bed in a University dorm, a girl and boy who at nineteen were taking our first tentative steps into the world of relationships.

For years I was guilty of going along with this. Also I do not try to push him. Hell, maybe I could even start wearing a beanie. We still argue, and sometimes he does get mad at me.

We support eachother and even if I need a hug and have to tell him first sometimes he has always had my back. As with my boyfriend everything you see at face value means more to him but in a different way. Gives him safe alone time feeling in the un-obtrusive presence of his favorite person. If he cant do it that time and he gets mad at himself. He does not grasp that unless I tell him -Schedule- always schedule even if its earlier that day for after dinner time.

That way everybody knows whats expected

We do this because I made a point to let him know it was important to me and therefore it is important to him. We also go out once a week to hear music wich sometimea is hard I have social anxiety for us both but we do it because we know its good for us hahaa. Somebody else said here that it means that he assumes im always fine.